Thursday, November 8, 2012

Glimpse of Heaven

Babies.  A glimpse of heaven in the real world.  (Reminds me of a song I used to jam out to.)

Kids sure do bring JOY to those around them.  As their mother, sometimes we get busy rolling through the daily routines.  Sometimes their screams in the grocery store make you want to drop the full basket of items at the door as you run for the car.  Sometimes their terrible-two-moments at home (when no other adult is around to witness this devil-ish behavior!) make you wonder how mothers have been staying sane for centuries.  But when they put on that smile, that giggle, that cutesy thing they just learned yesterday.....we get a glimpse of Heaven. 

When I say "heaven" what I actually mean is this:  a visual picture of God's amazing love for us.  As Thanksgiving and Christmas draw near, stop and thank the Lord for giving you a glimpse of heaven.  Thank Him for the gift and honor of being a mom.  And pray for the women out there who are enduring vicious cycles of fertility treatments or adoption processes.  They would give anything for the gift of motherhood. 

You are blessed to be a mom.


Monday, November 5, 2012

The Imperfect Mom

As I lay in bed this morning, my mind on over-drive and unable to shutdown, I just started thinking to myself, "I need an outlet!" 

Do you ever have those moments?  The little stresses all come together and make you want to run...you dream of booking a one-hour massage, thinking that will give you the fix you need.  Just one hour by myself, in a quiet room, with no possibility of disturbance, to relax.  (I mean, really, I can't even use the bathroom without my 16-month old following me in there!) 

At first, I was going to title this blog post "Outlet your Inlets" or "Outlet Shopping."  I was going to write all about taking time for yourself to rejuvenate....because you can't take care of your kids if you're not taking care of yourself....something we've all heard before.  Then I came across a small devotional book for Moms that I inherited and found a chapter that seemed to be calling my name.  It was titled, "The Imperfect Mom."

You see, I tend to get to that point of over-stressed whenever I start thinking about all my imperfections.  It's then that I start thinking of ways to "better" myself.  And that leads to more stress because then I have this long to-do list of items that I think will make things "better."

Allow me to share this prayer with you, from Richard Exley's Straight from the Heart for Mom.

"Lord, Thank You for giving me an imperfect mom,
for using her to teach me that love is more important than perfection,
that kids are more important than things,
and that it is more important to do things with your children
rather than just for them.
Bless my children, Lord.
Fulfill Your purposes in their lives
in spite of my parental blunders."


I hope that you find as much encouragement from this prayer as I did. 

By the way, I found my outlet without having to look far.  I simply got out of bed earlier than normal so that I could have some quiet, alone time to think and pray and write.  (Because writing/journaling happens to be a pretty darn good outlet for me.)  If you don't have one already, find an outlet for yourself.  And pat yourself on the back for being the best mom you can be.  Nobody is perfect.



Saturday, October 6, 2012

Free & Fun Activities

As the weather turns nicer, we can FiNaLlY take nice long walks around the neighborhood and go to the park more often!! Walking is great exercise for me, it helps me de-stress, and Robbie loves the stroller ride. Park time is still quite interesting...he's not big enough to climb and slide without me hovering and helping, but he sure thinks he is! I love his adventurous spirit :)

We also love visiting the public library. We're fortunate to live right down the street from our city's new, state-of-the-art facility. The children's area is awesome!! Robbie is at the age where he can enjoy the interactive features, and he already loves for me to sit and read with him.

Check it out!!

Thursday, October 4, 2012

New Mom, Crazy Mom?

This is an article I wrote awhile back when my son turned ONE.  You can view the article at:
http://ktuttle625.blogspot.com/2012/06/new-mom-crazy-mom.html

Batters Up!

We love Texas Rangers Baseball! (and sports in general) So naturally we can't wait for our little man to be big enough to join some type of organized little league team....be it soccer, t-ball, or whatever his wish. Daddy taught him to swing a bat last weekend, and ever since he has been totally fascinated by this fun game. He can already kick and throw a ball but sometimes he gets easy entertainment by watching mommy and daddy throw the ball across the living room to each other. It's like keep-away but he doesn't try to grab it from us yet. He just watches in amazement and laughs as we become little kids again with our antics. I know one day I will be the cliche mom yelling, "Take the ball outside! No practicing in the house!" but for now, it's 100% approved :)

It's never too early to teach your babies whatever you feel the urge to teach them. At this age when their brains are little sponges, give them every opportunity to soak up the knowledge! Physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual knowledge.

The saying is true:
Knowledge is power.

Friday, September 28, 2012

Creating a Daily Soundtrack

Since we've cancelled our cable TV subscription- to make family our focus- I've come up with an alternative "outlet."  I LOVE music!  And I LOVE Pandora radio!  I pay a few bucks a month for Pandora One on my iPad, and it's commercial-free.  The past few days, I've found myself desiring different types of music to be playing in the background at different parts of my day.

Below is a sample of what my Daily Soundtrack might look like on a given day.  It changes daily as my moods change, but I've come to realize that encouraging, uplifting music can keep the mood light and lifted. 
  • Early Morning (breakfast time): Hymns 4 Worship
  • Later in the morning, whenever I need a better tempo to get us going: Praise & Worship
  • Playtime, Snack-time, and/or Lunchtime: Toddler Radio, Radio for Kids, Disney Children's (or CDs of choice with kid songs)
  • While Robbie is napping, I listen to Piano Solos while I work on the computer or around the house
  • In the afternoons (or on morning walks) I like 80's Pop or 60's Oldies
  • In the evenings while I cook dinner and wait for hubby to get home, I prefer Phil Collins, Hall & Oates, or Frank Sinatra
  • On the weekends, we enjoy Classic Country, Patsy Cline, and a number of other stations that I can't even think of right now.
Obviously, we all have very different tastes in music, and your personal soundtrack will be very different from ours!!  Just keep in mind that you want to be careful what your children are internalizing.  This is why I always start off with Worship music.  And if I'm using the "old fasioned" radio, I keep it on 94.9 KLTY Christian radio the majority of the time.  Another kid-friendly station seems to be 98.7 Oldies.



Tuesday, September 25, 2012

Turn off the TV!

Our cable box has been broken almost TWO WEEKS now!  This may sound strange, but I'm not so sure I want it fixed this Friday.....we've found other activities to keep us occupied and we've been happier!  This free time has allowed us to be creative with our time.  And when my son goes to bed, my husband and I pick up the iPad or a book.  And we TALK!  (Imagine that.)

I want to share a poem by Roald Dahl, famous children's author and poet.  Simply food for thought :)

TELEVISION
The most important thing we've learned,
So far as children are concerned,
Is never, NEVER, NEVER let
Them near your television set --
Or better still, just don't install
The idiotic thing at all.
In almost every house we've been,
We've watched them gaping at the screen.
They loll and slop and lounge about,
And stare until their eyes pop out.
(Last week in someone's place we saw
A dozen eyeballs on the floor.)
They sit and stare and stare and sit
Until they're hypnotised by it,
Until they're absolutely drunk
With all that shocking ghastly junk.
Oh yes, we know it keeps them still,
They don't climb out the window sill,
They never fight or kick or punch,
They leave you free to cook the lunch
And wash the dishes in the sink --
But did you ever stop to think,
To wonder just exactly what
This does to your beloved tot?
IT ROTS THE SENSE IN THE HEAD!
IT KILLS IMAGINATION DEAD!
IT CLOGS AND CLUTTERS UP THE MIND!
IT MAKES A CHILD SO DULL AND BLIND
HE CAN NO LONGER UNDERSTAND
A FANTASY, A FAIRYLAND!
HIS BRAIN BECOMES AS SOFT AS CHEESE!
HIS POWERS OF THINKING RUST AND FREEZE!
HE CANNOT THINK -- HE ONLY SEES!
'All right!' you'll cry. 'All right!' you'll say,
'But if we take the set away,
What shall we do to entertain
Our darling children? Please explain!'
We'll answer this by asking you,
'What used the darling ones to do?
'How used they keep themselves contented
Before this monster was invented?'
Have you forgotten? Don't you know?
We'll say it very loud and slow:
THEY ... USED ... TO ... READ! They'd READ and READ,
AND READ and READ, and then proceed
To READ some more. Great Scott! Gadzooks!
One half their lives was reading books!
The nursery shelves held books galore!
Books cluttered up the nursery floor!
And in the bedroom, by the bed,
More books were waiting to be read!
Such wondrous, fine, fantastic tales
Of dragons, gypsies, queens, and whales
And treasure isles, and distant shores
Where smugglers rowed with muffled oars,
And pirates wearing purple pants,
And sailing ships and elephants,
And cannibals crouching 'round the pot,
Stirring away at something hot.
(It smells so good, what can it be?
Good gracious, it's Penelope.)
The younger ones had Beatrix Potter
With Mr. Tod, the dirty rotter,
And Squirrel Nutkin, Pigling Bland,
And Mrs. Tiggy-Winkle and-
Just How The Camel Got His Hump,
And How the Monkey Lost His Rump,
And Mr. Toad, and bless my soul,
There's Mr. Rat and Mr. Mole-
Oh, books, what books they used to know,
Those children living long ago!
So please, oh please, we beg, we pray,
Go throw your TV set away,
And in its place you can install
A lovely bookshelf on the wall.
Then fill the shelves with lots of books,
Ignoring all the dirty looks,
The screams and yells, the bites and kicks,
And children hitting you with sticks-
Fear not, because we promise you
That, in about a week or two
Of having nothing else to do,
They'll now begin to feel the need
Of having something to read.
And once they start -- oh boy, oh boy!
You watch the slowly growing joy
That fills their hearts. They'll grow so keen
They'll wonder what they'd ever seen
In that ridiculous machine,
That nauseating, foul, unclean,
Repulsive television screen!
And later, each and every kid
Will love you more for what you did.      



House becomes Classroom

Robbie's not skilled enough to eat at his toddler table yet, so we use it for art projects.

We have a big driveway and use sidewalk chalk to practice our letters and words.

I have lots of books set out within his reach so that he grabs them (almost) more often than toys.

Friday, September 21, 2012

Don't waste the Pre-School years!

I went to a MOPS group this morning, and it was very inspiring and encouraging for me.  The speaker was a teacher that has been around the block :) and she was giving us ideas for how to prepare our kids for school....and life!  I'd like to share a few of the notes I took:

  • Be intentional about what we expose our kids to; find a delicate balance because they are SPONGES!
  • Immerse them in LANGUAGE.  Having a language-rich home helps them develop their vocabulary.  Don't talk to them like babies.  Talk to them as you do chores together, as you play, as you do everything.  Go on a nature walk and describe the things you see, using detail.  Example, "That's a daisy.  It's yellow."  Even if they don't understand the words right away, they will learn very quickly!  I've watched this with my son.  Even though he can't communicate with words yet, he communicates with body language and sounds.  And he can respond to our requests very well.  I like to practice having him go get a certain toy from the toy basket, just to see if he knows what I'm saying.  It's pretty amazing to watch!! 
  • READ to them, collect books, visit the library.  My son has baskets and stacks of books all over our house available for picking up and exploring them.  He loves books already!  Simply making them available and within reach can do wonders for them at an early age.
  • Make up songs to teach them how to spell their name.
  • MATH:
    • Teach them to count; use songs like The Ants Go Marching and 1, 2, Buckle my Shoe
    • Teach them to draw numbers and shapes
    • Skip count by 2 (2, 4, 6, 8...) and by 10 (10, 20, 30...)
  • WRITING:
    • Color, draw, and find fun ways to practice writing their letters
    • Teach them to write their letters with counter-clockwise circles (think about lower case a, d, g, etc.)
  • And, last but not least, turn OFF the TV.  Our TV has been broken this week, and it has actually been a blessing for our family.  Limit their intake to 30 min - 1 hour of TV each day.  There are some really good educational shows out there these days; however, nothing takes the place of mom and dad sitting down to teach their own children.



Thursday, September 20, 2012

Terrible Twos

They start earlier than that!!  My doctor said they can start as early as 9 months.  And it is oh-so-true in our household.  My son is 15 months old and tearing up the screaming-stomping-kicking-squating tantrum moments.  They are spurred on when he doesn't get his way.  The best thing to do (I've found) is to walk away and simply say, "No, you can't have that right now.  I'm sorry, baby."  It is SO HARD not to laugh!!  Sometimes I go on to tell him why he can't have whatever-it-is.  But this is simply myself needing to rationalize why I'm walking away from a screaming child for a moment. 

It got to the point, today, that he was holding onto my leg for dear life and following me around our bedroom/closet while I was trying to fold and put away clothes.  He simply wanted to be held; I couldn't offer that at the moment.

Sometimes, you gotta do what you gotta do.

Good luck!!  Let me know what works and doesn't work for you....?

Photo Opp. TIPS

One of my new hobbies is photography.  I've learned how to take advantage of great photo opp's in the moment, and I'm still learning how to make sure the light and frame is just right before clicking.  The really cool thing about technology these days is that you can take really great pictures from your iPhone!  And if you don't like how it turned out, there are lots of photo editing tools (Apps) for free.  I've learned how to take any image and make it better, simply by auto-correcting the color.  It just takes time to sit and play with the tools on your phone or computer.  (And how might a mom-on-the-go find time for that??  Well, I was lucky to have a family vacation at the beach for a week this summer, and let's just say that I took advantage of every kid-free moment...lol.)

Another idea is to use PicStitch to make photo collages.  It's fun to put multiple pictures together, because they tell a story.  One day, I want to print a book for my son with pictures of his first year - a picture book of his own life :)  Shutterfly, here I come!

Below are some of my favorite pieces of work, from a trip we took to Granbury/Fossil Rim.  I wasn't necessarily the photographer, but I helped set the scene or edit the picture after download.

Fun at the Lookout:  Here, I cropped the picture and then added a B&W effect.
 
Map Reading:  Here, I took advantage of the fun angle as he sat in my lap in the car.  I love the fact that he's holding the map but looking back at me, AND the map matches his shirt!



Giraffes:  Here, I wanted the focus to be Robbie as he was looking at the animals.

 


Lake View: I took advantage of the parallel/perpendicular lines from the railing.  I also make sure that I was far enough away to get the land and sky in the background.




Love Song

I wrote this love song for my son after reading the faved Love You Forever, by Robert Munsch.



"Robbie Mac's Song"

I love you forever, my beautiful son;
You don't know how much of my heart you have won.

I love you forever, my sweet punkin pie;
This love reaches endlessly, into the sky.

Your smile and laughter is ever so bright;
In Christ, you are shining a marvelous light.

And all those who meet you can't help but surround;
They say that those eyes boldly, fiercely astound.

Be still now, my baby and seek His great throne;
For we will rejoice in God's goodness alone.

Love, Mommy

Wednesday, September 19, 2012

Favorite Games - 15 months

My son and I are developing some fun games to play together!  He's about to be 15 months old, and his little personality is cracking us up.  Here are some of the things we love to do:
  • Dance Party - I turn on my favorite Pandora station or iTunes album and we just start to boogie!  He's copying everything I do right now, so watching him dance is simply hilarious.
  • Ball games - We go outside and TRY to kick, chase, or bounce the ball.  (The ball I'm referring to is a small kick-ball type.  Good for soccer and bouncing!)  Inside, we practice throwing smaller softer balls across the room.
  • Categorizing - My son loves to unpack everything from his toy basket, so I'll sit with him and categorize his toys.  I make sure to talk to him while doing this.  (Talking to baby while doing any activity is a good way to build their vocabulary.) 
  • Coloring - He's not quite old enough to enjoy this one yet, but if I sit down to color, then he will mimic me.  This is good, quiet entertainment at restaurants; hence the reason I'm trying to teach him this skill.  :)
  • Sing-Alongs - One very easy way to entertain (and teach) my son is to turn on a SingAlong CD for kids.  I'm learning the songs, and I can make up motions to them as we sing and dance.  Obviously, I have a love for song/dance; therefore, this is one of our favorite activities.
  • Sesame Street - Wow, do I love this one for wake-up time after breakfast in the mornings!  I DVR it from PBS, and we can watch it whenever we please.  It teaches kids so many great things!  LOVE it more than any other kid-show.  Actually, I also LOVE Sid the Science Kid.  (maybe because I'm a teacher, and this one is the perfect show for teaching kids all about the science around them.)
As I think of more activities we enjoy, I will add to this list.
Happy teaching!!